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Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-13-2009, 08:04 PM
I can agree with this.

Me, me, me! America’s ‘Narcissism Epidemic’
Authors say long-term consequences are destructive to society
[offsite=http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30312181/:1i0od5t5]In their new book, “The Narcissism Epidemic,” psychologists Jean M. Twenge and W. Keith Campbell explore the rise of narcissism in American culture and explain how this can lead to aggression, materialism and shallow values. An excerpt.

Introduction
We didn't have to look very hard to find it. It was everywhere.

On a reality TV show, a girl planning her sixteenth birthday party wants a major road blocked off so a marching band can precede her grand entrance on a red carpet. A book called “My Beautiful Mommy” explains plastic surgery to young children whose mothers are going under the knife for the trendy “Mommy Makeover.” It is now possible to hire fake paparazzi to follow you around snapping your photograph when you go out at night — you can even take home a faux celebrity magazine cover featuring the pictures.

A popular song declares, with no apparent sarcasm, "I believe that the world should revolve around me!" People buy expensive homes with loans far beyond their ability to pay — or at least they did until the mortgage market collapsed as a result. Babies wear bibs embroidered with "Supermodel" or "Chick Magnet" and suck on "Bling" pacifiers while their parents read modernized nursery rhymes from This Little Piggy Went to Prada. People strive to create a "personal brand" (also called "self-branding"), packaging themselves like a product to be sold. Ads for financial services proclaim that retirement helps you return to childhood and pursue your dreams. High school students pummel classmates and then seek attention for their violence by posting YouTube videos of the beatings.

Although these seem like a random collection of current trends, all are rooted in a single underlying shift in the American psychology: the relentless rise of narcissism in our culture. Not only are there more narcissists than ever, but non-narcissistic people are seduced by the increasing emphasis on material wealth, physical appearance, celebrity worship, and attention seeking. Standards have shifted, sucking otherwise humble people into the vortex of granite countertops, tricked-out MySpace pages, and plastic surgery. A popular dance track repeats the words "money, success, fame, glamour" over and over, declaring that all other values have "either been discredited or destroyed."

The United States is currently suffering from an epidemic of narcissism. Merriam-Webster's dictionary defines an epidemic as an affliction "affecting ... a disproportionately large number of individuals within a population," and narcissism more than fits the bill. In data from 37,000 college students, narcissistic personality traits rose just as fast as obesity from the 1980s to the present, with the shift especially pronounced for women.

The rise in narcissism is accelerating, with scores rising faster in the 2000s than in previous decades. By 2006, 1 out of 4 college students agreed with the majority of the items on a standard measure of narcissistic traits. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), the more severe, clinically diagnosed version of the trait, is also far more common than once thought. Nearly 1 out of 10 of Americans in their twenties, and 1 out of 16 of those of all ages, has experienced the symptoms of NPD. Even these shocking numbers are just the tip of the iceberg; lurking underneath is the narcissistic culture that has drawn in many more. The narcissism epidemic has spread to the culture as a whole, affecting both narcissistic and less self-centered people.

Like a disease, narcissism is caused by certain factors, spreads through particular channels, appears as various symptoms, and might be halted by preventive measures and cures. Narcissism is a psychocultural affliction rather than a physical disease, but the model fits remarkably well. We have structured the book according to this model, explaining the epidemic's diagnosis, root causes, symptoms, and prognosis.

Like the obesity epidemic, the narcissism epidemic has not affected everyone in the same way. More people are obese, just as more people are narcissistic, but there are still those who exercise and eat right, and still those who are humble and caring. Even the less self-absorbed have witnessed narcissistic behavior on TV, online, or in real-life interactions with friends, family, or coworkers. The mortgage meltdown that led to the financial crisis of 2008 was caused, in part, by the narcissistic overconfidence of homebuyers who claimed they could afford houses too expensive for them and greedy lenders who were willing to take big risks with other people's money. In one way or another, the narcissism epidemic has touched every American.

In the last few years, narcissism has become a popular buzzword, used to explain the behavior of everyone from hooker-obsessed former New York governor Eliot Spitzer to famous-for-being-famous Paris Hilton. Others have diagnosed themselves: former presidential candidate John Edwards explained his extramarital affair by stating, "In the course of several campaigns, I started to believe that I was special and became increasingly egocentric and narcissistic." As the New York Times noted, narcissism "has become the go-to diagnosis by columnists, bloggers, and television psychologists. We love to label the offensive behavior of others to separate them from us. 'Narcissist' is among our current favorites."[/offsite:1i0od5t5]

pack3tg0st
05-13-2009, 08:30 PM
spot on...

this is the result of the propaganda model... Big business wants you to NEED that $60,000 car and $1.2 million house... and they've done well getting that message into the American psyche.

Passive consumerism...

Smited.

Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-13-2009, 08:37 PM
Kinda reminds you of drugpushers huh pack3t?

And, I was thinking, wouldn't narcissism affect pretty much an persons entire psychology and philosophy?
IE self righteousness, inability to accept disagreement etc.

Think I am going to buy the book.

boycotteverything
05-13-2009, 08:45 PM
spot on...

this is the result of the propaganda model... Big business wants you to NEED that $60,000 car and $1.2 million house... and they've done well getting that message into the American psyche.

Passive consumerism...

Smited.Do you think the study of propaganda is new? Check out the old Soviet Union. Read Vance Packard concerning the advertising world. Christ this shit was required study in the 60's. It's been going on since Roman times. Nice to see you've discovered it. Enjoy.

Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-13-2009, 08:48 PM
And behold the chihauhuaboy yips at THEE!
:lol:

torbjon
05-13-2009, 09:09 PM
Can't say this enough:

"Century of the Self" by Adam Curtis.

You can watch it on Google Video.

They aired it at least once on BBC... to my knowledge it has NOT been aired on American Television.... EVER.... if that is incorrect then I'd like to know about it.

Makes Alfred Hitchcock and Stephen King look like kiddy shows.... scary as all hell.

rock on
twj

Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-13-2009, 09:11 PM
I will check it out.

torbjon
05-13-2009, 09:16 PM
you'll Love it Wraith... a real Must See... very well made, not lame at all.

others, please, please, please, take the time, 'kay?

The info there goes Both ways, ya know? We can use it against "them" too... for warned is four armed (or something like that)

duty calls
I go now

glad the board is back... missed everyone.

Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-13-2009, 09:32 PM
Awwww shucks. We love you too man!
:lol:
Sorry, couldn't help myself.

MrPenny
05-13-2009, 09:48 PM
No shit......this "LOOK WHAT I CAN DO" thing has just now become obvious?

It's the fuckin' bane of the Internet.......

pack3tg0st
05-13-2009, 09:54 PM
Do you think the study of propaganda is new? Check out the old Soviet Union. Read Vance Packard concerning the advertising world. Christ this shit was required study in the 60's. It's been going on since Roman times. Nice to see you've discovered it. Enjoy.

Yah i discovered it a while back...

Bernays is where its at :P

Like Torb said... "Century of the Self"...

awesome series...

Foxtrot Oscar
05-14-2009, 03:13 AM
Look at me I'm not "narcissist".

I just wrote a book about narcissism.

Now please tell all your friends about it and how narcissist they all are!

Fox

That's a fucking brand: not a name.

Fox

pack3tg0st
05-14-2009, 03:19 AM
don't you mean Fox™ ?

guinnessford
05-14-2009, 03:29 AM
No shit......this "LOOK WHAT I CAN DO" thing has just now become obvious?

It's the fuckin' bane of the Internet.......


99 pct of the time, when I say "look what I can do" its followed by a trip to the E.R., and alotta new parts on my dirtbike.

torbjon
05-14-2009, 05:14 AM
Look At Me Me Me ME NOW! isn't learned, it's Natural:

http://www.torbtown.com/nola/nola_4_5/thumbnola_115.jpg

UN-learning it, that's the secret.

Cogburn
05-14-2009, 06:02 AM
Western society as the footnote to Freud.

That series is good, but there's a few fnords in there based on how the information is presented and what's left out. It "gets the point across", which is good enough given the profundity of that point.

boycotteverything
05-14-2009, 12:03 PM
Look At Me Me Me ME NOW! isn't learned, it's NaturalAnd while that's true, it's also true that meaning is a matter of rising above that nature.

MACBETH
Wherefore was that cry?

SEYTON
The queen, my lord, is dead.

MACBETH
She should have died hereafter;
There would have been a time for such a word.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day
To the last syllable of recorded time,
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage
And then is heard no more: it is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.

Watcher-In-The-Shadows
05-14-2009, 01:02 PM
Um, Fox, it is a name.
Don't know the root of the do you?
:D

GeneralStriker
05-14-2009, 01:51 PM
what your step there child. the glib one has more knowledge in his spit than you'll accumulate in your vapid lifetime.

Chorlton
05-14-2009, 02:04 PM
you'll Love it Wraith... a real Must See... very well made, not lame at all.

others, please, please, please, take the time, 'kay?

Saw it when it was transmitted
Very thoughtfull.

I still want a tennis court in my garden though

skunk
05-14-2009, 02:24 PM
Damn I thought this thread was about me...I guess I'm vain. :pound:

Foxtrot Oscar
05-14-2009, 04:00 PM
Damn I thought this thread was about me...I guess I'm vain. :pound:

Big bad billy blue vein. :pound:

Fox

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